Have you ever noticed yourself waiting for someone else to make a decision that you could actually make for yourself?
I had a simple awareness about this recently while trying to schedule my piano lesson.
I sent a text asking what time my lesson would be, and afterward I realized the energy behind what I had sent. I was waiting. I couldn’t make my plans until someone else told me what was happening.
I call it “victimage” energy.
What struck me was that I wasn’t consciously choosing to give away my power. It was subtle. I didn’t even recognize I was doing it until I became aware of how I felt.
So I chose differently.
I decided I wanted to go for my walk. I communicated when I would be back and asked if we could have the lesson then. I went on my walk, came home, and felt completely different.
Nothing huge had changed. I had changed how I was showing up.
It made me wonder how often we unconsciously wait for someone else, a situation, or something outside of ourselves before we allow ourselves to choose.
Sometimes awareness is enough to interrupt that pattern.
Where might you be waiting instead of choosing?
You don’t have to judge it or immediately change it. Simply becoming aware gives you an opportunity to come back to yourself and choose how you want to move forward.
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